Should I feel bad for wanting to skip work?

2021.10.16 22:50 StunningFennel9908 Should I feel bad for wanting to skip work?

It was 8 months of hell. First couple's therapy appointment he declared divorce. Did not even want to try, didn't want to get help. So it went, he was angry and depressed, took it out on me daily. He couldn't make up his mind to leave. First wanting to rent, then own, and finally leave the state. I let him stay, it was brutal. I knew we weren't good for each other after 11 years together. Constantly battling his poor mental health. I felt like I sacrificed everything. The past two years I started to distance myself and find support in friends. Friends he didn't like of course. I don't think he meant to be controlling but he was trapped in the dark recesses of his mind.
He was finally leaving. We spent three weeks being loving, reminiscent of the good times, enjoying each other's company and having sex. All the while, I put my feelings aside to make him happy. Like I have always done.
He left, drove a thousand miles away, a week ago. I thought I would be elated, energetic, and excited for this new chapter. But I am devastated. I haven't gone a day without sobbing. Work is a mire. I can't concentrate. The entire year I have been battling to stay focused and put my best foot forward. It was daily texts full of hate from him that brought tears to my eyes for months. Now it's my own self pity and mourning.
Should I feel bad for wanting to take off work? Why do I feel this way. He was never good for me and often wasn't good to me. I know this. Yet I am horribly depressed. I just want to move on!
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2021.10.16 22:50 jollybygolly First Slowly, then Quickly. The Everything Shortage Explained.

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2021.10.16 22:50 MrDonkness Hey I’m new here and need some advice

Hey guys so I don’t wanna sound ignorant or anything but I just want some second opinions on my experience. I’ve been feeling symptoms listed on this subreddits pinned posts and some others not listed like a slight frequent headache and like second guessing things I see. I’ve felt this way for about two months now after taking some edible. I never thought I’d experience this in my life and I just want some advice from other on how to deal with it and get through it. I’m currently attending college but it doesn’t seem to be affecting my studies.
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2021.10.16 22:50 OtherwiseWePanic Best places to visit on my way to Arizona

My friend and I are planning a road trip to Arizona in November, but we don't know any interesting places to stop on our way. We really want to see some nice mountains, vistas, landmarks, hiking trails and so on. Though my friend has been to AZ many times, this will be my first time out west so I'm very excited to see new things.
We're coming from central Maine, cutting though VT, IL, MO, and NM. Any suggestions are appreciated!
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2021.10.16 22:50 Late_Result9840 attempt to salvage a pour gone wrong. success or failure?

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2021.10.16 22:50 thepieworshipper Stocks are overheating

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2021.10.16 22:50 quote_emperor cartolina-aforisma-errico-malatesta-3

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2021.10.16 22:50 ILoveThisMadWorld I don't care about anyone.

I could forget everyone's existence and throw them out of my life. I can't remember if I ever cared about anyone. Because of this, I feel like I shouldn't be friends or anything with anyone because it's quite one sided and I feel like I'm doing them wrong. I'm severely depressed and just wanna die, but that's how it's been for 6 years and nothing's changed, so yeah.
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2021.10.16 22:50 youtuber00 Twitch

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2021.10.16 22:50 ka_play What is increasingly becoming socially acceptable?

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2021.10.16 22:50 Arcsilva I drew Void! I really like his mod, definitely check it out! Leave some sketch requests, I'll try to get to a few of them soon!

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2021.10.16 22:50 InternallyCracked Anyone here want to play DnD?

Maybe something a little different here, but I'm looking for players for a dnd campaign! You don't have to have any prior experience playing tabletops as long as you're willing to engage and learn.
I'm probably going to he presenting as masc while dming, and this is also on my main account so please dont out me (i wish i didn't have to ask).
This is my player form if you are interested send me a pm or something. Hope to hear from you!
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2021.10.16 22:50 Wenlaxx Ways to reduce late-game lag?

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2021.10.16 22:50 AlternativeFair5101 I (25) confronted my narcissistic ex (31) and she blocked me? please help ,feel confused

So we she broke up with me back in June over text like I was nothing and this point I was depressed and missed her. I eventually started to think about the relationship and how she acted and suspected she was a narcissistic but wasn't sure. I started to get my life back together and I noticed she was look at my ig stories. she started sending bread crumbs around August and I ignored her, she threw a tantrum and unfollowed but then messaged me again saying "she should've done things different with me etc." I didn't bite. she messaged me again a few days ago and saying how she can't stop think about me and how she has changed. I asked to meet and we did. We talked and she did seem different and apologized for everything and told her we can start as friends. We made plans the next day to go for a run and surprised she blew me off. Her mom told me she was at the gym so I went to go confront her and found her with another guy and foolishly confront her and she automatically started to gaslight me. I told her I was done and was blocking her on everything however she beat me to it and I don't know why but now feel confused and for some reason sad.
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2021.10.16 22:50 showyourself703 [REQUEST] I’m looking for shows that are based around true crime, serial killers, the weird and occult type thing.

I absolutely loved mindhunter, and the docs like hotel cecil, nightstalker etc. Basically so much stuff within that genre type ends up being really slow, badly produced or just sensationalised. I am not fussed on whether it’s fiction, based on a true story, documentary or series I don’t mind. It’s the quality and the ability to become engrossed in it that I want! Also please feel free to suggest outside of Netflix (is that’s allowed!)
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2021.10.16 22:50 brickandsalon self directed IRA for day trader in crypto?

couldn’t find what i was looking for online when i saw a comment suggest doing this. i understand it applies to holders, but how about someone who’s income is solely based off tens of thousands of trades?
would this work, if not is there any other tax advantaged account that would?
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2021.10.16 22:50 BreadfruitRealistic7 Russians of reddit do you identify with being Asian?

Im really sorry if my flairs weird I dotn actually understand Russian
View Poll
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2021.10.16 22:50 Gjab Minimum Minimum Minimum Wicked Wicked Minimum Minimum

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2021.10.16 22:50 alex_cdroot Coding Style

It may seem weird to discuss style if you're a beginner, but style is the most important part of programming. You often recognize a good programmer by the way his code looks. If you've worked as a developer, than you know what I mean by this.
As a beginner you might not notice the importance of clean code, mostly because you are working on small programs, designed for learning purposes. In the industry, programmers spend most of their time maintaining, upgrading and debugging existing code, instead of actually creating new programs from scratch. Most software is built on existing software. Writing clean code truly becomes an art and it makes you and your team more efficient.
If you practice good programming style on the way, everything you write will be of the highest quality. I wrote a little bit on this on my github page. Whether you are a complete beginner or an advanced developer, you might find this topic interesting.
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2021.10.16 22:50 Ok-Seaworthiness6603 "I was about to _____________ but pandemia struck". Please complete the sentence. What are your plans after pandemia now?

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2021.10.16 22:50 BurnerAccountNew44 Any Pro am teams I could join or inv people to mine?

I wanna play some pro am but dont have anyone to run w. Im an 81 playmaking shot all badges max 3, middy and high/ max handles. Also on ps4
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2021.10.16 22:50 tank565 probably my favorite set and intro I've seen to date.

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2021.10.16 22:50 PIKA_Token The OFFICIAL launch of THE KRAFT NFT MARKETPLACE // COMING 10.27.21!!!

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2021.10.16 22:50 TK27 The Batman - Main Trailer

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